להתנהג כאילו אתם יוצאים שוב, ולהחזיר את הניצוץ לנישואים שלכם

אנשים תוהים לעיתים תכופות מדוע מערכות היחסים שלהם מאבדות את ה”ניצוץ” אחרי שנישאו. אך עם זאת, לפעמים לקיחת מבט על איך שההתנהגויות שלכם השתנו, והדבר הופך לברור. אנשים נוטים להתייחס אחד לשני באופן שונה כשהם יוצאים לדייטים ביחס לחיי הנישואין שלהם.

כיצד אתם מבלים את זמנכם ביחד?

אליו פעילויות עשיתם כשעוד יצאתם? סביר להניח שאשכרה יצאתם החוצה בדייטים. כשנשארתם בבית, מה עשיתם אז? אם אתם כמו מרבית הזוגות, כנראה שנהניתם מהזמן ביחד, ולא משנה מה באמת עשיתם. סביר להניח שהתמקדתם אחד בשנייה.

עם זאת, ברגע שאנשים נישאו, הפעילויות שלהם לרוב משתנות. הם נוטים לצאת לדייטים בתכיפות הרבה יותר מועטה. הפעילויות שלהם לרוב סובבות סביב תחזוקת הבית ולא סביב הנחת זמן מיוחד ביחד כדי להתרכז אחד בשני. הרבה זוגות גם כלל לא מתכננים פעילויות מיוחדות כך שהם יוכלו לצפות אליהן יותר. אם אתם לא מקדישים זמן מיוחד אחד בשביל השנייה, זה לא יקרה מעצמו. חשוב לבלות זמן איכות יחד כפי שעשיתם כשעוד יצאתם לדייטים.

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Das beste Sexspielzeuge ist nun sogar noch geiler

 

Vor ein paar Jahren haben wir gesagt das „Hello Touch“ wohl das beste Sexspielzeug ist das je erfunden wurde. Doch nun hat Innocnt seinen kraftvollen Handschuhartigen prostata stimulieren sogar noch verbessert was ihn kraftvoller den je macht und dadurch auch, tja interessanter. Die so genannten Pleasure Pods werden am Ende Deiner Finger befestigen und vibrieren nicht nur sondern senden sogar leichte elektrische Stöße.

Keine Sorge – es ist natürlich alles sehr sicher. Der neue „Hello Touch X“ bietet ein sehr angenehmes Elektro-Stimulations-Erleben. Die Technologie dahinter ist der sehr ähnlich die auch Physiotherapeuten nutzen um Muskeln zu entspannen und Du kannst Dir vielleicht vorstellen wie ein bisschen Elektro-Stimulation Deinen Partner Dinge spüren lässt die sie oder er so noch nicht erlebt hat. Ich habe es sogar selbst ausprobiert (an einem PG Körperteil) und würde das Gefühl als irgendetwas zwischen einem Kitzeln und einem leichten Zupfen beschreiben.

Das bester vibrator kaufen ist nun sogar noch geiler.

Nun das Gefühl des leichten Zupfens und des leichten Kitzelns ist irgendwo in den niedrigeren Intensitätseinstellungen der insgesamt 10 verschiedenen Einstellungen anzusiedeln. Wenn Du den „Hello Touch X“ hochdrehst dann wird es – nun sagen wir mal ziemlich heftig. Die sechs verschiedenen pulsierenden Einstellungen geben Dir sogar noch mehr Möglichkeiten. Innocnts beschreibt die Elektro-Stimulation als „ideale Art und Weise das lustvolle Schmerzempfinden in SM Praktiken auszutesten“. Studien weisen weiter darauf hin, dass Elektro-Stimulation auch eine effektive Behandlung von sexuellen Funktionsstörungen bei Frauen sein kann und intensivere Orgasmen hervorrufen kann. Und nochmals: die körperliche Verletzungsgefahr ist gleich null.

Mit all dies im Hinterkopf ist es fair zu sagen dass alleine schon der kraftvollere Motor des „Hello Touch X“ ein Upgrade rechtfertigt – egal ob Du neugierig bist die Elektro-Stimulation auszuprobieren oder bereits die erste Generation dieses Gerätes besitzt. Der „Hello Touch X“ wird mit zwei Sets Pleasure Pods für Deine Finger geliefert: einen für normale Vibrationen und einen für die Elektro-Stimulation.

Das beste Sexspielzeug ist nun sogar noch geiler.

Du kannst die beiden Pleasure Pods nicht gleichzeitig benutzen, es sei denn Du kaufst zwei Geräte, allerdings willst Du Deinen Partner wahrscheinlich auch nicht mit beiden Pleasure Pods überwältigen.

Mit dem Launch des „Hello Touch X“ hat Innocnt auch ihre berühmte Kollektion wasserdichter, wieder aufladbarer Vibratoren überarbeitet. Der neue „Form 5“ sieht zwar ein bisschen wie Batman aus, doch die Lustflügel die ihm dieses Aussehen verleihen versprechen eine interessante Innovation im Design von Vibratoren. Ein kraftvoller Motor im Zentrum dieses Geräts lassen die Silikonflügeln leicht flattern was für ein herrliches Vergnügen rundum sorgt. Auch Männer können dieses Gerät gut benutzen.

Das beste Sexspielzeug ist nun sogar noch geiler.

Der „Hello Touch X“ und der „Form 5“ sind ab heute auf Innocnt’s Webseite erhältlich. Beide kosten jeweils US $145 und eignen sich auch als ganz besonderes Geschenk.

Greece Says It Won’t Pay IMF Loan by Deadline

 

Matt Krantz talked about the current debt crisis in Greece and whether people should be worried.

On Tuesday, Greece requested its 3rd bailout from the eurozone in a last – minute attempt to secure a deal for its debt before its financial – crisis – era bailout officially expires. This would cause the country to default on its loan from the IMF, one of its 3 international creditors.

The two – year deal (if accepted) would allow the country a new bailout from the European Stability Mechanism created by eurozone, which is its $ 560 billion rescue fund.

During the meeting of the finance ministers of Europe on Tuesday, they discussed the proposal. In the meantime, thousands of Greeks picketed in Athens, most of them supporting the acceptance of the new bailout terms. If the finance ministers vote no, Greece will effectively leave the European Union and abandon the Euro as their currency of choice.

Tweets from several of the European finance ministers who participated in the conference call indicate that they would not extend the bailout plan, as expected. They also indicated that the ministers could potentially meet on Wednesday to continue discussing the details of the latest Greek bailout terms.

These last minute developments came as the Finance Minister for Greece Yanis Varoufakis announced on Tuesday that Green would not make its debt payment to the International Monetary Fund by the midnight deadline. This set the state for showdowns with Greek creditors ahead of the national referendum set for Sunday to decide on Greek membership in the euro currency.

However, despite this overture at the eleventh – hour, it isn’t expected that the crisis would be resolved imminently. Angela Merkel, the German Chancellor, announced that the eurozone would not make any definite decisions on new Greek deals until the country had voted in the national plebiscite on Sunday. Additionally, Greek lawmakers pointed out that once the referendum was set, there would be no other way the vote could be cancelled.

In the meantime, Athens had until 5 pm ET on Tuesday to repay the $ 1.8 billion it owes as part of the $ 270 billion aid plan it got from the ECB (European Central Bank), the European Commission of 19 eurozone governments and the International Monetary Fund during the latest financial crisis.

President Obama warned that a failed Greek economy would significantly affect other markets the world over. On Tuesday, he said that Greece had gone through difficult economic times and needed to chart a clear path towards staying within the eurozone and toward potential economic growth.

However, should there be a Greek exit (the so called Grexit) from the European financial community, President Obama added that it would be important for the United States to plan for all and any contingencies, that the country works with the European Central Bank and the other international institutions to make sure that some of the bumps that occurred within the financial markets were clearly smoothed out.

Chinese International Student Faces Prosecution in China for Killing in Iowa

 

IOWA CITY, Iowa – The authorities in China have arrested a former student of the University of Iowa in south eastern China. The authorities said that they would prosecute the UoI alumnus on charges of killing his girlfriend in Iowa. Her body was found stuffed in the truck of her car, police in Iowa City announced. Both the suspect and the victim to the crime were international students from China studying at the University of Iowa.

A news release from the Iowa City police issued on Monday night this week said that the 23 year old Xiangnan Li surrendered to the police in Wenzhou city on the 13th of May. He was then arrested on the 19th of June and is expected to face charges of intentional homicide.

Mr. Li returned to China after Tong Shao was slain. The 20 year old is a Chinese national. Her body was discovered on the 26th of September last year. An autopsy revealed that she had been asphyxiated. The authorities announced that Ms. Shao was killed after she spent a weekend with her boyfriend at a Nevada motel in Iowa. Apparently, Shao was reported missing on the 17th of September in Ames where she was enrolled as an international student at the Iowa State University.

Janet Lyness, the Johnson County Attorney informed The Des Moines Register that authorities in Iowa want Mr. Li to be transferred back to the United State for his trial. However, problems arise because China and the United States are yet to sign a formal extradition treaty.

Lyness said that this was the only way the U.S. could have Mr. Li prosecuted – by getting the Chinese to charge him themselves. After all, China would not extradite anyone back from their country.

Additionally, the Chinese Criminal Investigation Bureau announced that under the criminal law in China, its citizens are also subject to prosecution in China even if they committed crimes abroad. The range of severe punishments in the country for intentional homicide includes life imprisonment, imprisonment over more than 10 years, and the death penalty, among other punitive measures.

Authorities in Iowa said that Mr. Li was of interest to the investigation. However, he went back to China before they could question him. The police officials at Iowa City contacted the officials in China and soon the Chinese Criminal Investigation Bureau and the Zhejiang Province police opened investigations into the case.

Officials in Iowa also added that a team of investigators from China visited Iowa in the early days of June. They also joined Iowa prosecutors and police in their investigations.

The Chinese Ministry of Public Security also announced in a formal statement on Money that detectives from China collected their own evidence, reviewed the crime scene and questioned actual witnesses. The ministry also said that the police from the United States also handed evidence over to the Chinese team.

Wenzhou is one of the cities located in the coastal provinces of Zhejiang to the south east of China.

A Dutch City is Giving Money Away

 

Some citizens of Utrecht will soon receive windfalls of extra money as part of the Dutch city’s daring new experience with the basic income idea.

Basic income is a regular and unconditional payment designed to provide enough money to cover one’s basic cost of living. In January 2016, Netherlands’ 4th largest city and its partner (the University of Utrecht) will create several regimes for welfare recipients to test the theory.

A couple of citizens already under the welfare state will start receiving monthly checks running from $1000 for adults to $1450 for couples and families every month. Out of the 300 participants, at least 50 of them will receive unconditional basic incomes which will not be subjected to any regulation. Therefore, even if they find jobs or start earning an income from other sources, they will still receive their disbursements.

This was explained by Nienke Horst, one of the project managers working for the Utrecht city government. Additionally, there will be 3 other groups with different sets of rules and one control group following the current welfare laws. There would also be requirements qualifying income and job – seeking.

The aim of this experiment would be to challenge the idea that people receiving public money ought to be punished and patrolled, announced Horst. Traditionally, basic income has come under criticism from people who claim that it does not make people work harder and, therefore, damages economies.

She informed Quartz that some people said that they would not try as hard as they did before to get a job. The experiment will help the officials find out the truth behind this statement. However, her view remains optimistic and she announced that the city officials think that the free money would make people happier and more willing to find jobs.

Basic income has been tested in other countries, including Malawi and India, in the past. However, the most famous basic income experience was conducted in Dauphin, Manitoba, in Canada. Between ’74 and ’79, the income program gave stipends to everyone in the town, which varied according to every citizen’s individual income.

This experiment was studied by Evelyn L. Forget while working as an economist for the University of Manitoba. Her report titled ‘The Town with No Poverty’ was published in 2011 and concluded that basic income basically reduced poverty in Dauphin and alleviated a couple of other problems.

As skeptics had already predicted, working hours dropped mainly among young men who chose to continue with their education and mothers who utilized the added financial freedom to focus their attention on childbearing.

Although people thought this was negative, it proved that men were much less likely to drop out of school – further affecting their lifetime earnings in a positive way, she informed Quartz. Additionally, women were able to take extended maternity leaves.

Forget also announced that the participants were even less likely to get hospitalized. The health facilities in the town saw drops in mental – health – related complications, further reducing costs.

However, the substantial difference between the Utrecht experiment and Dauphin’s Mincome is whereas the Canadian program happened to be universal, the Utrecht one would be restricted to people who were already on welfare. Perhaps the Utrecht experiment will offer even more insight.